George Orwell
Losing someone that we love can be painful and disorientating. Whilst there can be grief and sadness that they are no longer with us, there can also be happiness that they have lived and comfort in the knowledge that the love they shared remains with us, alongside their own very distinctive way of living and dying.
There are far more choices now than there have ever been to create a meaningful and authentic tribute to someone who has lived life differently.
From choices of caskets or shrouds to cremation, resomation, burial or green burial to the mourners wearing waders at the funeral of a fisherman or entering the crematorium dancing the Conga Line Dance for a life-long Gloria Estefan fan - you really can do anything !
Every bereavement is different, there is no right or wrong way to grieve.
As a Humanist Celebrant I will be there alongside you to help create a meaningful and uniquely personal tribute to the life of the one you loved.
Whether you are planning a cremation, burial, green burial, resomation, memorial or pre-planning your own funeral , together we can create a ceremony that can authentically capture the very essence of the individual and how they lived their life.
We can include personal tributes, readings, music or anything that that was important to them. Not everyone lives a "normal life" so why would we have a "normal funeral"?
If you would like to get in touch, we can have a chat about what is possible and whether you think that I can help you in paying tribute to the person that you loved.
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Nobody wants to be at a funeral. Who wouldn't rather be having a cup of tea, a dance or even an argument with the person who died? But then, too many people haven't been to a good funeral - one where they came away invigorated with gratitude and love for the person they knew, or quietly healing and soothed by the closing of a difficult chapter, or simply involved in a ceremony that did what was needed.
Our role as humanist funeral celebrants is to make the funeral ceremony as (appropriately) brilliant as it can be. For it to encapsulate grief and shock, but also laughter and love. For it to reflect the idiosyncrasies and complexities which are part of every relationship. All of this not in spite of the circumstances but because of the circumstances. All of us deserve a good funeral.
Zena Birch from The Little Book of Humanist Funerals
Muppet creator Jim Henson was no stranger to putting on a good show. When he died, he insisted that no man or Muppet wear black to his services.. Muppets like Big Bird, Elmo, and Fozzie Bear commemorated their creator with touching, celebratory, and warm performances, including Big Bird’s rendition of ‘It’s Not Easy Being Green’.
The service came to a close with the Dirty Dozen Brass Band playing When The Saints Go Marching In.
The actress’s funeral was described as a "real knee's up" and was just that. When Linda was diagnosed with cancer, she asked her husband to make sure her funeral was a lively send-off, featuring performances from many of her musical friends. “It’ll be loud and bright and joyous" she said. The service was described as a Royal Variety Show event with its star-studded attendance and performances, and rivalled the very best of the West End shows.
The Sex Pistols’ manager was never going to have a quiet and sedate affair. The punk impresario arranged for a horse-drawn hearse to carry his coffin, spray painted with, “Too fast to live, too young to die,” This cortege was followed by mourners singing Sid Vicious' version of 'My Way' , the Frank Sinatra song.
The family said “He shouldn’t have a quiet funeral. He was never a quiet man. That idea of private family grief, he hated all that stuff.”
At the service itself, members of the Sex Pistols, New York Dolls, Primal Scream, and others performed.
Hunter S. Thompson was very specific as to his final request: to be blasted from a canon. When he died in 2005, his friend, actor Johnny Depp spent $3 million making it happen
At Hunters Colorado home a 153 foot tower was erected and his ashes were blasted from the top to the sound of 'Spirit in the Sky' this was followed by fireworks and whisky.
Whilst these are extravagant ideas , parties and celebrations of life have become an increasingly popular way to pay tribute to the deceased.
If you have a quirky idea of your own and would like to pre-plan your own funeral or would like to pay tribute in a unique way to someone you love then please get in touch and I would love to help you.
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